Privacy Policy

Discretion matters here. This explains what we collect and how we protect it.

What we collect

• Account details: email, username, a securely hashed password and your date of birth.
• Profile details you choose to share: titles, kinks, limits, location (as general as you like) and photos.
• Basic security logs: sign-in times and IP addresses, used to protect accounts and stop abuse.

How we protect it

• Profiles and photos are only visible to signed-in members — never to search engines or the public.
• Location and camera metadata are stripped from every photo you upload.
• Your date of birth is never shown to other members; only your age, and you can hide that too.
• Passwords are stored with a strong one-way hash. Staff can never see them.

Your choices

• Hide yourself from Discover, hide your age, location or online status at any time in Settings → Privacy.
• Ask us for a copy of your data or to delete your account by contacting the Headmistress team.

Sharing

We don't sell your data. We only share it where the law requires, or to protect members from serious harm.